Enjoy the uniqeness of 'I', 'Me' or 'Mine'

A unique creation of GOD for all of US.”
When it comes to your relationship with yourself, you can be your own best friend or biggest enemy. But do you know why? It all depends on the self-worth. The real value is measured through its qualities and the esteem in which it held. Because self-worth ultimately comes from within, the value you place on yourself is the only type of worth you can control. You determine how outside factors influence your inner sense of value. These are the actions, judgments, and reactions of other people.
Now, why so? The outside forces are not permanent. Therefore, they cannot be motivational forces or springboards for personal goals. If you look for external sources for validations, you will be more likely to make sick decisions. 
So, just because a set of people do not accept you as you are, it is not essential to bandage your originality. You need to think good of yourself, Never stoop down in order to gain recognition. Never let go of your true self to win a relationship. In the long run, you will regret that you traded your greatest Glory – your uniqueness, for momentary validation. There are many legends who were not accepted by the world for their uniqueness. So, I believe that the group that does not accept you as YOU is not Your world.
There is a world for each one of us, where we shall reign as a ruler by just being yourself. Find that world… In fact, that world will find You.
What water can do, inflammable cannot and what copper can, gold cannot. Everybody has been designed with a perfect blend of uniqueness to serve a purpose that has to be fulfilled only by being our unique self. You as you alone can serve your purpose and I as I alone can serve my purpose. You are here to be you… Just YOU.
In the history of the universe, there has been nobody like you and to the infinity of time to come, there will be no one like you. Existence should have loved you so much that it broke the mold after making you so that another of your kind will never get repeated.
Only you need to feed Good in YOU, Bad in YOU will starve and die.
Being a sacred soul for this universe, celebrate your Uniqueness!

Law of IMPERMANENCE

On 25th Feb 2018, the Sunday where every Indian from the very part of the world woke up with the SADDENED news of  Mrs Sridevi Kapoor's untimely demise.
Which gave us a message that if something is PERMENANT in this Universe undoubtedly that is "CHANGE".

As a matter of fact, our expectation that life has to be perfect or permanent is the biggest reason of our unhappiness. One has to understand the law of IMPERMANENCE of nature.

After each sunny day, there has to be a dark night, after each birth there has to be certain deaths, for full moon to come again it has to pass through no moon. In this imperfection of nature, there is perfection.

So, doesn't it better to overcome from taking our failures and bad part of our life so much  personally or intensely? even God does not like to give us pain but its the cycle through which one has  to  go through.

Therefore, why don't we prepare ourselves for one more fight after each fall because even failures cannot be permanent..😊😊😊.!

So I have a series of questions in this context that, When somebody told me that he/she has been failed in  exams, my question is, "Is it a law that you have to pass everytime?"

When someone told me that my boyfriend / girlfriend broke up with me, my question is, "Is it a rule that you will have successful relationship everywhere?"

When somebody asked me why am I in depression, my question is, "Is it compulsory to have confidence at all the time?"

When someone yelled to me about his/ her huge business loss due to the wrong decision, my question is, "Is it possible that you take all the time right decisions?"

The essence of PERFECT life is HIDDEN in its IMPERFECTIONS....😊😊 SO,

Enjoy life !! 😊😊😊😊

Indian revolution from Independence to Make-in-India

Indian revolution from 

Independence to Make-in-India

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India has been a home to numerous civilizations and empires out of which some are considered antedate 2000 BC. Many culture and religions thrived over the millennium and influence of foreign have degenerated and persuaded endlessly. The chronicle events of India are so attention-grabbing and also give a proud feeling. Today, with the same proud, we are celebrating 71st Independence Day (1947-2017).

In 1858, after a massive failure in mutiny, British Govt. took over India. They founded Indian National Congress Forum for emerging nationalist feeling in 1885. Then onwards, many rebellions and peace lovers started a revolution through countless campaigns across the nation, out of which mainly acknowledged are “Quit India Movement, Swaraj is my birthright and I shall have it”, “Give me blood I will give you freedom etc.” for attaining the independence from British rule of over 200 years.

The partition itself took hundreds of thousands of lives in communal bloodshed & women were brutally molested. The conflict rose for the princely state of Jammu and Kashmir, had not decided which territory to join that is India or Pakistan which is ongoing. After the assassination of Mahatma Gandhi in 1948, Congress party won the general election under the leadership of Jawaharlal Nehru. With this, the Indian political shape was initiated.  Yes, the Congress party played an important role in the set up of democratic India. The nation experienced much life to change events under its regime.  Like, India lost brief border in the war with China, Jawaharlal Nehru’s sad demise, 2nd  war with Pakistan for J&K and the 3rd war on the creation of Bangladesh formerly East Pakistan. In 1975, the political strains laid the state of emergency after being found guilty of electoral malpractice by Indira Gandhi and that leads to the creation of many major and minor political parties in India.

Post independence, the relishing era has also arrived with an adequate political performance which we called Make in India & it has perfectly placed itself in developed countries in terms of Economics, politics, Social, Art, sports, culture, Technology etc. It has produced many known scientists, business tycoons, able politicians, incredible artists; sportsperson standing in world’s ranking who have made India known globally and make the foreign countries to shake their hands for major alliances with India.  The 360-degree media communication revolution helped in awareness among the Indian people.

The melancholy of post independence is that the nation is deprived with its own people in many corners. Though, Dr. Ambedkar has given the well-framed Constitution to India where rights of an independent citizen are defined & people are well informed with the stages of revolution made by the martyrs but unfortunately for some narcissistic reasons people forgotten the worth of their lives. 

The country is still looking for independence through “Beti Bacho”, “Respect for Women”  “Corrupt free Nation” “Tolerance & Intolerance”, “Justice”, “Nepotism” and the most pity on “Swach Bharat Abhiyan”.

Revolution of Independence for Make in India is started at its full. After 70 years, people are learning the nitty-gritty of existence.

Let the value of Hope = X

Let the Value of Hope = “X”

In mathematics, there is a stream called algebra that deals with relations, operations and constructions of an equation. To solve it, some variables are applicable to get the accurate quantity. Some of these variables are English letters: “A, B, C or X, Y, Z” and we are often asked to solve them.

Similarly, life also gives us the problem of algebra to solve the difficult situations through such equations and we have to assume that the hope for acquiring the ideal solution which is unknowing is equal to ”X”. Also, remember, such situations may become the root cause for depression, anxiety, mental illness etc.

Now, what “X” symbolises here?

It may be optimism, positivism, enthusiasm, confidence etc. Instead of discovering value of such variables, it is also necessary to ascertain that for whom we are valuable? How can we modify the complications into implication of contentment?  Through such variables, we will find there are numerous methods to obtain the value of “hope = X.”

Aparnaa Vaidyaa

No Fear from Dar or Fearless Dar- The terroist? (Dar se darr nahi ya Dar ko darr nahi)

   In India Diwali is a festival of infinite wishes and gifts. The days of decoration from house to self to markets. The days of lucrative offers, alluring concepts of celebration etc. Within the days of preparation of celebration, what will happen when 2 days before some one lost their loved ones? Yes, I am mentioning the mishap happened in 2005 in Delhi with the serial blasts. Around 67 people were murdered not died in this blasts and many were injured.

Through the investigation three persons were found responsible for this activity and imprisoned. As per the procedure the court started their proceedings to find the reason and responsibility of this obnoxious activity. This trial went for 12 odd years. After 12 years it has been proved that they are innocent but have a deep nexus with some of the terrorist groups.

I was wondering that, is it not enough for any country that the person belongs to any antisocial activity group. Very disappointing and matter of concern on the judiciary process of the country.

I insist, that citizens should raise questions on such judgements. Such activists should have fear of citizens of any such country before performing any antisocial activity, unfortunately, if they do not have the fear of the system.  

The judgement given by session court on 16th Feb. regarding Delhi Serial bomb blast in 2005 was very disheartening. Is it not enough for the hon. court to sentence them as they are proven terrorists . Where Pakistan Govt. has made a slaughter house their jails and Hundred+ soldiers of India have either been imprisoned or murdered, yes they are MURDERED, I will not use the word KILLED . I am mentioning soldiers of India not the terrorists of India. No words to express the aggression and dissonance. Unable to understand  "NO FEAR FROM DAR OR FEARLESS DAR - THE TERRORIST? "  "DAAR KA DARR NAHI YA DAAR KO DARR NAHI?

Love .... from different planets

Few years back when I was reading Gray's book "Men are from Mars and women are from Venus" , I was really impressed with idea of projecting Men and Women on the same planet and their love relationship.
Beyond the imagination and explanation, only love cannot be expressed easily. It means a lot and gives nothing but a feeling.
I wonder, why people don't understand the depth of love with trust.

‎Probably when men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance to blossom is true.

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